guess this is just a rant, i need to tell someone. as you probabley know, i have been trying to get with this girl for like 3 weeks now. shes incredible everything about her is awesome. me on the other hand, dont got much goin for me except for being really nice. but of course, i am really, really shy around girls. i barely ever talk to them, and i only have a few friends that are girls. back to this girl. everytime i see her on school, shes in a few of my classes, i go to talk to her, and i look at her and just, melt and feel like a little kid and cant speak. i dont know why she has this affect on me, but for the past 2 weeks i have been goin to school saying, i will talk to her, i will talk to her, and never have yet. thats how stupid i am. i cant even talk to her. i cant even say hey hows it going, i dont know why, i guess i am just afriad, if i get to know her she show like me? or i will be laughed at if i try to talk to her? ive talked to her online like 10 times the past 2 weeks, and shes reallly nice to me, but shes nice to everyone, i have no clue if she is interested in me, be she barely knows me so i need to get to know her first anyways. i feel so stupid, i really want to be, at least, friends with her, and even though i think the world of her i cant get it in me to simply talk to her. i am really shy but with my guy friends im like pretty loud and stuff, its mostly when im near her. any advice i guess would be appreciated. i have all the motovation in the world to talk but i clam up when i am around her. btw, "dude your so gay just talk to her!" is not considered advice. please reply if you are serious.

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aaa hahaha thought id never have one of these cuz fricken ign went insider crazy, but now i have one and dont know what to put here ahh??
well, all i have to say is:
*gasp* McRib is back!

Well, really...just talk to her...don't feel blushy or anything...

...I normally have good advice for these issues, but, today I'm not feeling all that great.

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Hey, im the stupidest person here and dont you forget it

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all i have to say is be yourself..and be confident, you have to get over the whole shyness thing. yea i kno its hard...but thats the only way your going to get to kno her and get her to kno you. btw from a girls point of view, we can tell when shy guys are tryin to get to kno us....make some effort, she'll notice you..and just go from there...

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*except when you sign that i will love you always...and forever.* ~screaming infidelities, dashboard confessional

Having problems talking with your crush? Well, since you seem to have problems just going up and talking to her...try entering one of her conversations (if you can relate to what she is talking about). But, that isn't always the best idea if she's around a bunch of her girl friends.
Maybe if you guys have a group project in one of your classes, and you guys end up in the same group...hey, try making some small talk here and there with her.
Don't try to act like someone you're not either. Just be yourself, and if she doesn't like that...then she's not your type.
I've never had problems talking with girls I like, so excuse me if the advice sounds stupid.

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I guess the best thing would just to face your fear and talk to her.

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It's not funny my ASS is on fire.

Well, good enough for a 3.0

just look for a good time, man. im not too good at that either.

good luck with it.

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I say take this the the SHD board!

But anyway, all you can do is to just talk to her. Talk about homework for a class, school, sports... anything that might catch her interest. A lot of people have that problem, but just face your fear. Yes, I know, it's a lot easier said then done but once you do it it'll get easier... everything takes time.

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Drama kids are cool.
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Sometimes you have to get to know someone really well to realize you're really strangers.
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The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return. ~ Moulin Rouge

I've never really had this problem either...I just ask out. Only been shot down once or twice, but that's because in real life, I can be a jerk sometimes.

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Gather some courage and say the very least 'Hello'. Then just try to keep it up by saying How are you doing? Things like that. Don't be like this otherwise you will never find out what you must know so badly. Try to hold it together and just talk to her..


Don't be an @$$ when you talk to her. Try to keep at talking and compliment range only ;) never try to get closer unless you know her more and end up G/F & B/F with her man.

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