Well lemme put it this way:
Adam -- You've got one of the best personalities I've seen, and you're cute...just not hot...don't take that the wrong way I'm just being honest here.
But your personality makes up for any flaw of your looks...and I'll say it again....I do think you're cute. Since you're sweet, funny, mature and all those things you don't need to be the hottest guy for me to love ya.