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Originally Posted by tongyun
There was a time when I actually hated the holiday season. The reason was because my parents were divorced when I was very young and I had to decide who I'd spend the holidays with. If I was with one, I felt guilt about not being with the other. I still struggled with my feelings even after marriage and kids, but it's only been until the past 2-3 years that I started to look forward to the holidays.
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That is sad, but it is good that you are comfortable now. It is true that lot of turmoil goes on in kid's mind as the relations turn sour. I can understand the pain of not being with both of your parents together. I am also an emotional person to similar extent.Time is a great healer, though it took little longer in your case.