Breaking up with someone is a bitch......I just tell them the truth, that I have met someone new and would like to see where it will lead me......That I have had a wonderful time with them but that it is time to move on.....I wish them love and happiness and, I try to remain friends with them.

Oh, and I also give back everything they gave me, boy the diamond rings are hard to give back, but I feel necessary....I did keep the one though from my present ex, due to the fact that we were married and although it is a beautiful tear shaped diamond ring, I got it made into a pendant.....

I consider myself lucky never to have been dumped but who knows it may just happen, and I believe that I would handle it with understanding as I would want them to do also....

But breaking up is still a bitch.....That guilty feeling stays awhile, but face it, you and he have to move on, just separately..........

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